Ever have one of those Days?

holyhillbilly September 30th, 2009

Well, I’ve had one of those years!  :-O

Ah, what a year…I’ve failed miserably at keeping up with all my blogs…but haven’t forgotten about them…just not enough time in a day.

But, a lot of things have changed and my priorities have changed with them!  We survived a tornado this year and learned a lot about ourselves, our church family, our relations and our friends.

We also learned some valuable lessons in patience, perseverance, and prayer!  Lots of Prayer!

So, I look forward to the beginning of Advent this year…with a full and happy heart…eager to devote my time to serving God in the ways he wants…eager to resume my study and research on modesty, eager to turn my life over to him once and for all…realizing that I am most certainly NOT in control…and never have been.

Funny what a tornado does!  :-)   You can check out my other blog for more on the storm and pictures…the storm that rocked our world! 

So beginning tonight..I will start regular posting to this blog…at least once a week…you can also follow me on Twitter…http://twitter.com/holyhillbilly/

I’ll keep it updated with blog news for both blogs, and also updated for new items and sales in my store! 

Peace to you all,

Rachel

Recovery…More of Life after a Tornado

holyhillbilly August 11th, 2009

Here are some pictures as we began to start over…starting with the demo of our old home…can you see me in the edge of the photo…looking for anything we might could still save….as the house was torn down with contents still in it….couldn’t get them out…many a tear shed that day…
The end of our house...contents and all..by the time 25 in. of rain fell, there was a foot of mud inside the house!

The end of our house…contents and all..by the time 25 in. of rain fell, there was a foot of mud inside the house!

 This is the front of the new house next door…our daughter couldn’t wait for the porch to be done…that meant we’d get mail again..

The front porch on the new house!

The front porch on the new house!

Getting ready to hang a new french door…. 

If you give a wife a door......

If you give a wife a door……

The roof took the majority of the damage…we had to fix rafters and decking.. 

Repairing the roof

Repairing the roof

Shiny new Metal Roof

Shiny new Metal Roof

Kitchen is almost finished!

Kitchen is almost finished!

The house is further along now, but I haven’t uploaded more pictures yet…but this gives you an idea of what we have been through!

Life After A Tornado?..Yes, there really is!!!

holyhillbilly August 11th, 2009

Well, it’s been a long time since my last post…needless to say, I was shell-shocked, in shock, confused, dazed and utterly and hopelessly lost for a while..we all were.

However, God is good and we clung to our Faith like a life raft (it was literally all we had left!)

Things worked out for the better..and now 4 months after the tornado, we have a new home…well, used/new to us!…which is larger than our old one, a new garage (really new)..that’s larger than what we had, we have more property (kept what our house was on and bought the house and lot next door). 

Tornadoes are funny things…one house is destroyed, the next only damaged,..but fixable..that’s the situation we found ourselves in…our house was NOT repairable…but the one next door was.  The owners had decided to tear it down anyway though..as they had a different one they lived in…(long story there)…so we asked them to sell it to us instead..which they did..and that began the long journey to recovery.

Here are some pictures we took along the way…we are not finished..but at least we have a home!  :-)

A view of our old house from the street

A view of our old house from the street

A view from the back yard

A view from the back yard–we bought the house on the right…that's what we are remodeling now…ours is gone..the pool sits there now..saved the deck though!

This was my side of the garage...

This was my side of the garage…

 

Next post….see the recovery stage..pictures of the remodel on the new house…

Tornado Hits Small Town of Mena, AR

holyhillbilly April 23rd, 2009

I’ve been out for a while.  Thursday, April 9th, 2009 was a day like all others, the kids colored Easter eggs in preparation for Easter..I cut out some of the items for their Easter outfits.

We planned for Easter dinner and Holy Thursday mass that evening.  The kids were serving the mass..so they were excited.

Thunderstorms came rumbling in, but they are common for this area…even the tornado watch they issued for us wasn’t uncommon…it’s April in Arkansas..the weather is just weird that way.

We went on to church…it was truly divine intervention on the dear Lord’s part!  We had everyone safely in the basement of our church when the tornado struck.  Praising Jesus for our safety was an understatement!

When we emerged from the basement, our little hometown looked like a war zone.  We were unable to even get to our cars, so we had to take the kids and walk the 3 blocks to our little house…it took 35 minutes…only to find that our house and garage/sewing room had been totally destroyed.  In the stroke of about 15 minutes…hundreds of families were left either homeless or with badly damaged homes.  We were homeless.  We gathered a few things we could in the dark and continued to walk another 12 blocks to my mother in laws home.

Our kids were terrified…so were we….daylight the next morning brought pain, tears and anguish..but also a small ray of hope.  All of our pets had survived the storm unscathed…not a scratch on them.

We found that the house, while totaled..was still standing enough for us to salvage some things….and the work began.

Now, 2 weeks later, we haven’t found a home, my sewing business is down indefinitely, we are still living with my M-I-L, and the kids are as stressed and upset as we are.

We have had so much help from friends and parts of our families…it is sad that it takes something so devastating to show you just how much some of your family and friends care about you and how little others do.

I am without Internet access on a regular basis for now…I am able to get on a few times a week to check email and such…I’ll try to update as I can on our home situation and such.

You can see pictures of our little town here:

http://photo.accuweather.com/photogallery/content/PhotoDetails.aspx?pid=76557&pfrom=us

The above link is the best I found at the moment…the tree they are showing was not too far from my house…it was really spooky and sad to drive by that tree and see all that metal tangled and twisted in it.  They just got it all out in the last few days.  Our little town will never look the same in my lifetime.

http://www.talewins.com/arkansas/tornadodamage.htm

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1638984/tornado_slams_mena_arkansas_fires_assault.html

http://www.city-data.com/forum/arkansas/232432-pictures-arkansas-18.html

The Beauty of an Apron

holyhillbilly March 16th, 2009

An apron is something we saw on our grandmother..or in my case, my great grandmother.  I can remember as a child….the amount of things that would fit in her apron pockets…a small paring knife, a napkin or towel, a hair pin or two, sometimes even a hairbrush…depending on what she was doing.

My mother didn’t wear aprons that I can remember.  She isn’t here any longer, so I can’t ask her if she ever did…but I doubt it.

As a newly wed..I didn’t even own one…thought they looked old fashioned and tacky…LOL!  My how things change! 

About a year ago, as our lives began to shift toward environmental consciousness and a more simple life, I started collecting aprons.  I would find them at our local thrift store and at yard sales.  I was amazed to find that my daughter absolutely adored aprons. 

Thus our collection grew!  :-)   We have aprons for Christmas, vintage aprons, tie dyed aprons, half aprons and full aprons.  Then I started making them…half aprons are my favorite…I’m still trying to work out the pattern I like best for a full one.

But now, I look back on my grandmother and great grandmother…and realized that those aprons were so much more than just an apron…they were a uniform…it meant that they were a mother, grandmother, homemaker, nurse, cook, bottle washer, fire tender, seamstress, and a home builder.  The apron didn’t do it, but it was such an important part of what they did…they wore them every day…those aprons helped gather food from the garden, protected clothes from cooking and cleaning, held cleaning supplies, cooking supplies, clothespins, hankies, safety pins, sewing supplies, and sometimes even a treat.  They wiped children’s faces and hands, they wiped away dirt and tears alike.  They helped get hot food out of the oven.  Then at night, they were hung on a hook by the door of the kitchen until morning.

Now, I wear an apron…I have one especially for hanging out clothes..it holds all my clothespins.  I have ones for cooking…washing dishes, etc.   But most of all, these aprons…they tell people…what I do, who I am. 

Aprons are a part of our heritage…a part that is disappearing in today’s fast paced world.  Grasp this piece of history…embrace it as a mother…and put on your apron…wear it with pride! 

The practical side of it makes since…fewer stains on your clothes, pockets to make up for those extra 4 hands that you just don’t have…they work as a portable basket if you have a garden…a comfort for that little child that needs a face or hand wiped.  Have fun…have several….choose them to reflect your own style…Fancy ones, plain ones, half ones, full ones…pick one for the holidays too! 

They are not only useful and practical, but also feminine…which we need to cling to!  Aprons fit in with my modesty theme…they make you feel more feminine…and remind you of the importance of what you do..what God has called you to do and be!  A mother, a homemaker, a woman of God!

Don’t know where to start?  Check out my aprons in my Etsy store

Homeschooling in Arkansas

holyhillbilly March 15th, 2009

We live in a small town in Arkansas.  So far, the laws in Arkansas have been fairly relaxed, with very little government interference.  We have to file an intent to homeschool form each year and take a standardized test once a year for grades 3-9.  Other than that, the schools and the government pretty much leave us alone.

However, today I found out some info that is pretty bothersome.  Nothing we can’t handle, but still…

There is a bill in the Arkansas House right now…to add some restrictions and such to our rules.  The new laws themselves are not that bad..but the doors that they open are…and we can’t let that happen. 

Oddly enough, the proposed bill is not as disturbing to me as the opinions expressed by our very own Superintendent of our school district.

It has become obvious that she does not like homeschoolers.  She supports this new bill and her statements were very, very disturbing in how she views us, as homeschoolers. 

I have included her email she sent in support of HB 2144.  This is an unedited version of the email…just copied over to here.  As you can see…she views the “majority” of us as not doing a good job and lacking in respect for our children’s educaton.  Hmmm….this is her first year in this position….I wonder if she will last….she didn’t at our local Community College.

Her email:

———-Original Email———-
I am in favor of HB 2144. As a school superintendent, I am working non-stop to ensure that each child intrusted to Mena Public Schools receives a quality education. This week, our principals sent letters to parents warning them that their children had reached the 12 day (since semester) absence limit. I have had parents in the office or on the phone since the letters were mailed trying to home school their children.

One parent said, “They don’t like lunches at school; they don’t like to get up in the mornings, and I don’t want to bring them to school (they ride buses and are on free lunches)–so I want to homeschool.” The boys were in grades 5 and 8. The mom had no idea what she was going to use to teach them, how she was going to help them like school, how she was going to discipline them as a teacher/mom. I tried to talk them out of leaving. They were determined, and mom basically let 10 and 13 year olds drop out.

I have many more stories just like these that convince me that homeschooling in Arkansas is promoting the very things that Gov. Beebe, Presidents Bush and Obama, and each of you are against. We are seeking to educate the children so that they are not left behind. We want to improve our number of graduates and students going to college. How are we going to do that when we allow children to leave our schools at the whim of a parent? There are some who do a good job, but the majority are perpetuating the low regard for education that has been the curse of Arkansas’ progress. Our school district of 1954 has more than 130 students being home schooled. Many never come back and are added to the cycle of generational poverty. Please help us by passing HB 2144.
———-End Original Email———

Her comments concern us…although we know that it’s mostly about the money…she is losing money for the district for each child that is homeschooled. Huh! 

She expresses a lot of dislike for homeschooling with the comment

I have many more stories just like these that convince me that homeschooling in Arkansas is promoting the very things that Gov. Beebe, Presidents Bush and Obama, and each of you are against.

What about the good side of homeschooling?  Doesn’t that count???  What about the fact that these kids are doing really well in testing and later in life in college and beyond?

What about the proven record of homeschooling achievement across the country that shows that homeschooling works really well?

I guess that doesn’t matter to her…it always boils down to the money and control doesn’t it?  The states keep trying to take our kids away…to indoctorate them to their way of thinking…so that they would grow up to believe all the garbage the government trys to spout off as fact.

Ok…done with my rant…just had to get that said!  :-)   Hope you all have a blessed day!

On the 11th Day of Advent…..

holyhillbilly December 10th, 2008

On the eleventh day of Advent…I post what we’ve been doing for the last 8 days! :-)

On the 3rd day of Advent..we did nothing…watched Christmas movies and slept all day..What?  Yeah, we have been recovering from colds/bronchitis..we rested. Oh, and we had play rehearsal

On the 4th Day of Advent….We ran errands, rested and had play rehearsal…

On the 5th Day of Advent….We Rested..no play rehearsal…we are still trying to recover from these retched colds and get ready for Opening night of The Christmas Carol.

On the 6th Day of Advent….It’s opening night!  Did I tell you that the kids are performing in our local Theater Program?  They both have parts in the Charles Dickens Classic  A Christmas Carol  .  Meg is a Fezziwig daughter, and Mitch is Tiny Tim! 

On the 7th Day of Advent…Play night again..we’ll be doing 9 performances total..4 this weekend, 4 next weekend and 1 midweek this coming week..for the middle school.  Opening night went perfect..they got a standing ovation!  I’m a very proud and blessed mama to have such wonderful kids!

On the 8th Day of Advent…We went to Mass…and then on to our next performance!

On the 9th Day of Advent…We have a play tonight…the kids are exhausted..Mitch is still fighting a bit of cough and sniffle.

On the 10th Day of Advent… We caught up on Laundry today..and finally got the kids goats!  :-)   They are raising Nigerian Dwarf Goats for a 4-H project…They will show them in the fair next August.  They are the cutest things…I’ll have to get some pictures up…

On the 11th Day of Advent…Well, that finally brings me to today…I’m typing this at 6:30 am… we have our performance at the school this morning.  The kids have made me proud..they scrambled out of bed and tended little goats, the dog and the cats…and had their breakfast..poor Mitchell is still sniffling..the cold air doesn’t help, it was 32 degrees this morning here…BRRRRR….

We are going to be so thankful to be done with this play..the kids have had a blast and it’s really brought Meg out of her shell..(she’s my shy one), but all this activity right before Christmas has got me flustered and stressed.  I’m trying to keep our time at home low-key and quiet…to bring our Advent season back in focus…but it seems to be flying by so fast this year….

The last day of our play is Dec. 15th…after that we are going to stay at home, get our homemade gifts finished, and enjoy each other as a family..instead of running around like chickens  with our heads cut off!

Well, Theater time is in 15 minutes..time to do hair and makeup and costumes..

Peace and love to all.

On the Second Day of Advent….

holyhillbilly December 1st, 2008

On the second day of Advent, we didn’t do a lot…I have a cold and it’s sneeting here!  What is sneet?  It’s a combination of snow and sleet…looks like snow, falls like sleet.  It’s probably a very redneck, arkansas, kind of term..but that’s what we call it!  :-)

As we sit by the heater today, nursing colds..did I mention the kids have them too??…I was thinking..we are going to try something new this year…DH and I discussed this the other evening and have decided that instead of a huge pile of presents on Christmas morning, we are going to give the kids a small gift each day of advent…nothing big..sometimes nothing more than a candy cane or a small treat.  But with each gift will come a story…or a discussion of all events leading up to the birth of Jesus.

Our kids know the meaning of Christmas…that was never out of focus for us..but this year, I want something more..maybe because times are hard and gifts will be even harder to come by, maybe because I want their spirits to be strong..after all, the times ahead of us are going to require a lot of faith and strength.

Many of our gifts this year will be handmade..by yours truly…a few I have bartered for and even fewer have been purchased new…

We will be doing community service this year as well..stockings for the local foster kids, Christmas cards for the hospital and nursing homes, and possibly a child off the angel tree..

But for today..we are nursing colds and I’m going to have a cup of hot tea.

Peace to all of you this Christmas Season!

On the First Day of Advent….

holyhillbilly December 1st, 2008

On the first day of Advent, we put up our Christmas tree. We also planned our new traditions to further enhance the Advent season. I’ll be posting the things we do periodically..and hopefully will get a picture of the Christmas tree up tomorrow! :-)

The kids look forward to this time of year so much, as do I…I love the whole season..the joy, the music, the smells of baking..the family time…Midnight mass…it’s all just so wonderful…it just wraps around you!

I am Thankful for…..

holyhillbilly November 19th, 2008

I was thinking about this last night….what do most of us focus on for Thanksgiving?  The food? The cooking?  The sales the day after?  :-)   Yeah, all of that..but how many of us are remembering what Thanksgiving is really about?  Being Thankful?!  In today’s current state..I think we should all reflect on what we are thankful for on this upcoming Thanksgiving day!

I’ll even go first!

I am Thankful for..

  • God
  • Jesus
  • My Catholic Faith
  • The freedom to worship in my faith without any repercussions..who knows how long it will last!
  • My children
  • my husband
  • my grandparents
  • my friends
  • my extended family
  • my health
  • the health of my children and husband (something we haven’t always had)
  • our home, be it small and humble
  • any work we get right now (not a good time for being self-employed)
  • the fact that we have food, clothing and a roof over our heads…as there are a lot this year that don’t!

So post your comments and tell everyone what you are Thankful for!  Let’s get focused on the important stuff again!

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